I splurged on a Thorlabs PDA100A2 photodetector for about $450. And actually, I'm glad I did.
I'll be forever grateful to @KM and others on this thread that helped me create a DIY photodetector, but there were a few screens that seemed to be flicker free but still gave me headaches. Here's one of those screens (a supposedly flicker-free Benq). The DIY photodetector in red and the Thorlabs one in blue. Note that the oscilloscope is set to 50 microseconds per div, so my DIY photodetector just doesn't seem to be responsive enough to pick up the flicker.
Here's a couple more comparisons with a flashlight that flickers. Same colors (DIY in red and Thorlabs in blue), The Thorlabs response time is well under 1 microsecond whereas my DIY response time is roughly 10 microseconds.
If anyone wants to borrow my setup I'm sure we could work something out.