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I have two workstation in different locations and on two I had problems such as you describe. And on both of them the problem was solved by changing the BIOS version of the motherboard.
I have a theory that this is due to poor compatibility of devices from different generations. For example, you have a 2018 motherboard and you put a 2022 video card into it. I think there must be desynchronization issues here.
In my case, it was too fresh a bios that was not compatible with old cards, so I had to roll back. It's on the first workstation.
The second one had to update the bios to the latest version. And after that my new 3070 worked fine. No eye pain, no graininess in pictures, no bad color reproduction.
UPD: Sorry forgot to mention that this was an answer in this thread https://ledstrain.org/d/1688-rtx-a4000-causes-eyestrain-with-true-10-bit-monitor/32, I just copy/paste.