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I'm similar to you. Was never able to use the OLED iPhones. I remember the day I got my iPhone X when it came out I almost called 911 because I got symptoms out of nowhere and didn't realize it was due to the phone.
I was able to use old Apple LCD devices as well and could look at them for hours completely comfortably. But now if I update devices beyond certain iOS versions they become completely unusable. I summarized the versions in a post a few months ago.
https://ledstrain.org/d/2683-severe-symptoms-updating-old-iphone-started-a-summary-of-goodbad-versions
As far as I know there hasn't been an iOS 17 version I can use but I haven't tested all of them on LCD screens. I currently use an iPhone SE 2022 on iOS 16.1.1. I can look at this for hours with no issues.
I tried contacting Apple about this to see if they knew what changed and/or if there was a setting that could get me back to the "old" way of however graphics were rendered. I didn't really get an answer but they did say they would get the information to the appropriate internal teams. I feel like there potentially could be some type of accessibility setting they could add if they hear about this issue from enough people.
I'm really at a loss as to what the actual cause of this is. I can put a "good" and "bad" version of a certain model of iPhone/iPad right next to each other and visually they look exactly alike. But one will make me sick and the other won't.
If you look at threads here on Ledstrain it seems something similar has happened between versions of the Mac OS as well. Also recently on Windows. So not sure if there is some type of graphics rendering that everyone has started using.