diop Wow, that really sucks! Has it always been like that? Have you ever asked anyone trained in binocular vision therapy if it may still be helpful for you? My binocular vision therapist from years ago said they had one kid that would look forward with one eye, and the other eye would essentially be pointed at the wall. It took 3 years of intense vision therapy, but I think they may have been able to graduate from the therapy! Kids are way easier to work with though, because the neuroplasticity of the brain is still at its highest.
I have two separate but distinct eye issues when it comes to computer monitors. Sometimes I will only talk about one at a time as not to confuse people. I can't look at LED monitors at all. It feels like staring into a very bright light, even at 0% brightness, and "hurts my brain". So I rule them out completely. I avoid them like an allergy-sufferer would. But even on long term "known-good" monitors I was getting eye strain and temple headaches after being on them a long time. That issue is what I credit the vision therapy for. I share that info because other people here talk about "eye strain" but sometimes without going into specifics about how long it takes. Then some people, maybe on other forums, would suggest they get their eyes checked (acuity), and they get frustrated because they may be seeing 20/20 without glasses. The correct suggestion may have been to get their binocular vision checked.
But yeah, getting a fried brain within minutes or sometimes seconds can't be related to any eye-teaming issues. I still don't know why I can't handle LED-backlit LCDs; I can only handle CCFL-backlit LCDs. I still think it's to do with intense blue-light though, because turning up the brightness, disabling flux, and turning off the "warm" Preset Mode on the OSD of my Dell U2410 (CCFL) will reproduce that "brain ache", but it's still more tolerable and takes longer to set in than an LED would.