I have never used Mac OS, can't help to get/install Android Tools. Maybe someone else can.
You must enable developer options on the device by touching said entry 7 times. Then "Developer Options" appear as a new top-level item in Settings. Inside, there's "OEM unlocking" it must be enabled so you can later, with working Android Tools, enter the command "fastboot oem unlock". This would be denied otherwise. When everything worked, the bootloader is now unlocked.
Once the bootloader is unlocked, you will see a message and a menu on every boot, as seen in this thread for example: https://forum.xda-developers.com/oneplus-3/help/help-how-to-remove-device-unlocked-t3425028
They fixed the typo in a later firmware (those ship with new OxygenOS releases but can be installed separately with TWRP later if needed for some reason). Should you already see this menu on your device on every boot, it means the seller has already unlocked it and you could skip all those steps and "just" need to get Android Tools working on the Mac.