Just an update for those interested. I can't really take Adderall because of the side effects and my doctor in my new city doesn't want to prescribe it. She referred me to a neurologist and I had two EEGs. One normal EEG and the other I did while looking at screens that hurt my eyes. Both results were normal. Luckily, the neurologist does believe me but admits to not knowing what the problem could be. He said he'd like to attack the problem as if it were a migraine issue just to see if migraine medications work.
I have been taking Depakote since February 8, 2022…I quickly worked up to 1000mg starting on February 14th and have been on this dose since. There are times where I feel like maybe it is helping but times where my eyes hurt just as much as usual. So I do have the occasional better day but I am not sure if it's due to the medication or not. I was on vacation in another country and the pain was less but I think it was because I was so busy and distracted and not using screens much. I have zero side effects from the Depakote but I don't think it's worth continuing to take if it doesn't alleviate my symptoms. I guess the true test will be if I come off of it and my eyes hurt 10x worse! I have a follow up appointment with the neurologist next week and will discuss next steps and will likely try a new medication.
I now live in an area full of research hospitals and am considering making an appointment with a research based neuro-ophthalmologist or neurologist…expectations would be low but might as well try. And I might look around for vision therapists. Everything just costs so much.
Long story short, still looking for help.
I will post again when I have another worthwhile update.