AGI It looks like your condition has degenerated very quickly if you were sort of symptoms-free one and half year ago.
It's not exactly like that. Considering my exophoria diagnosis is right I was never really 100% symptoms-free. I was always a slow reader and was getting very tired easily after reading or working up-close with computer screen. Back then I didn't blame my eyes at all. I thought it was normal or it was just an anxiety. I used to get a slight blurry vision after looking at my "good" screen, but as it was just a slight deterioration of my vision it was bearable, so I didn't complain. Now I know it was probably all my heterophoria.
I just think my brand new laptop screen was too demanding for my eyes with BVD and my heterophoria exploded with its worst symptoms I had never had before.
AGI I read online and I was told by one optometrist and one orthoptic that there is a sort of breakpoint, past which rest is the only solution and recovery can really take months without doing any close-up work. It is similar to a nervous breakdown.
One of orthoptists I saw told me I had a nervous breakdown and it manifested with my eyes. It didn't make sense as I was not very anxious in the time before I bought a new laptop. It was an easy diagnosis because she couldn't prove it and her treatment plan was financially and functionally demanding for me.
I was thinking of quitting any up-close tasks for months, but let's be honest, it's almost impossible. Maximum time I did was two weeks and all the symptoms came back immediately with the very first look at my phone. Sorry, but I don't think it's the way.
AGI I have no idea what the degree of your heterophoria is and I am not a trained specialist.
14 pd at near, measured a month ago. As others said, mostly there is no correlation between amount of your deviation and symptoms, but the last eye specialist told me that anything above 10 may be symptomatic. I found people having less than 10 and being extremely symptomatic.
Here are normative values from a good source and near lateral phoria is 3 XP +/-3.
AGI Sorry for being very direct, but after what you experienced (multiple pair of glasses, vision therapy) where do you get the confidence that a surgery will solve your issue? Also, at least in my case I do not think that esophoria is the principal culprit. That is what my orthoptists believe too.
I really believe people here suffer from different conditions which cause different symptoms, so your esophoria may indeed not be the culprit. After two years of wandering around all types of conventional and unconventional specialists I learnt one thing, always listen to your body and try to logically connect your main symptoms with conditions/diseases. I made many mistakes like letting having my neck muscles "corrected" (due to specialists it was the cause) and it resulted in constant neck pain I feel everyday ever since.
I just can feel my tired eye muscles everytime I finish looking at near screen and that's already a lot telling me what's the source of my symptoms. There is no magic.
I don't build up my opinion only on online posts, but I found many guys on reddit suffering from heterophoria and having the same symptoms.
Example 1
Example 2
Example 3 - this guy even did a surgery and 70% of his symptoms disappeared
The difference between them and us (probably most of us or at least some part) is that our condition became symptomatic with a new device, so it looks more like a magic than some health issues and that's why it's so hard and time-consuming to be properly diagnosed.
Anyway, I cannot be 100% certain if a surgery will help me, but it looks like it's the last resort for me. The last ophtalmologist (and surgeon) told me "You got the most of your VT, you tried different prisms, there's only a surgery left". I also asked her about anxiety as possible reason for me problems and she admitted it makes it worse, but the source is somewhere else.
AGI Please stay away from surgeons and medicines unless at least 50 doctors tell you it is the only way out :-)
Sure, I still have a few appointments booked to get more opinions.