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Most of the panels you've tried are KSF phosphor
The Mateview and M32UC are, at least.
AMOLED phones are a completely different hazard, plagued with: PWM flicker, ghosting (due to slower G2G, for battery life apparently), brightness dip/flicker.
Sorry to read that your WOLED journey was unfruitful., the OLED desktop monitor space is not ripe yet sadly.
You might want to keep an eye out for the RGB stripe OLEDs in Q1-Q2 2026, which might be the holy grail of displays if they fix the current issues with them (subpar pixel layout on Windows, subtle brightness dip, lack of glossy/matte options)
High PPI and higher refresh rates (+200hz) are only possible by going with a laptop-sized display for now. You have to choose one or the other in today's market, if talking about monitors.
If you don't mind buying a entirely new machine: the new Blade 18 (4k 200hz) or some 16" 16:10 QHD 240hz panel in gaming laptops (such as the Asus Zephyrus lineup) should hit a few bulletpoints you've mentioned. But I'm unsure whether they sport a QDEF or KSF phosphor backlight (i'm afraid they both use KSF phosphor, no reviews to confirm anything)
This 18.4" 4k 60hz Uperfect can also be an option, if you wanna give up on refresh rate and like smaller form factor (idk if KSF):
https://www.uperfectmonitor.com/products/18-inch-4k-monitor
I'd avoid the Alogic, due to sketchy company, potentially KSF phosphor and still too low PPI imo (+ the 60hz makes it really archaic, there are better options if u wanna give up on refresh rate)
If you wanna opt for high PPI (+200), just get a used iMac 2013-2015 (21.5" 4k or 27" 5k) and install Windows/Linux on it and use it to your liking.
Or try finding a iiyama XB2779QQS (uses iMac 27" panel but w/ single DP1.4, very unique out of the 5k panel clones)
A nice, budget middleground is the Q24G2A (24" QHD 165hz), as it lacks KSF phosphor and is decently fast.