Hi everyone,
now after my experience with the MBP 2018 were not as good as I thought I went to the computer shop today again to have another look at screens.
Here I found an LG gaming monitor with 240Hz (instead of the ordinary 60Hz). So far it seems to work very well. At least I do not have nausea, dizziness etc. (yet?). Just the blue light emission bothers me a bit but this may also be due to super sensitive eyes now. So I wear my yellow clip on and see how it goes.
The screen also has no PWM even on the lowest brightness level (which is not as low as could be, but ok).
Super smooth and relaxing picture so far (also on OSX with the MBP 2018).
Hope that helps someone.