I will add a little update on my problem... Still using this SOny TV XE9005 and so far connected to PC I had no problems with exception of some FPS games like Sniper Ghost warrior but for example CS GO was fine on this TV.
But recently I wanted to get back to some sim racing games. Back then I was playing Assetto corsa with a wheel using my good EIZO FS2434 and all was fine. I wanted to try this on this TV and rebuy a wheel but after 30-50min of asseto corsa or project cars I had strong pain between eyes which later lead to headache which sometimes lasted till next day..
So it seems like games where you watch far away with eyes makes problems for me...
I tried some settings with this TV again like with contrast and changed balance between while/black had no success on simracing games BUT I have noticed after those changes headaches occured even in materials (like you tube stream watching) which didnt trigger headaches for me.
SO it can be something with the colors.. I have noticed on forum some people mentioned about contrast ratio of 1000:1 or below... I have checked and my monitor has that contrast ratio but my TV is 4000:1 so that can be one of the reasons...
I wanted to try an OLED but acording to rtings update they are not flicker free.
I have decided to try out 43 MONITOR which would be similar to my 24 FS2434 in some specs:
W-LED
FLICKER-FREE
IPS
250cd/m2 - thats my monitor max so not too bright (my TV is 500-900at max!),
NO HDR
Anti-Glare/matte 3H
fastest response time/input lag
AND after reading some post here - 1000:1 contrast ratio
Unfortunately there are not many monitor at 43 size but I will try. IF anyone has anything to add/similar problems write