It is an over-simplification, but it might help to consider that a 30ms response time would equate to about 33frames per second (or Hz). If that monitor has a nominal refresh rate of 60fps (or Hz), then it may not respond fast enough to show any dithering.
Its kind of similar to the argument where ccfl pwm is more tolerable than led pwm because the rate of change of colour is slower and not instant.